A Tale of Two Chicas

Just Be Yourself. May 15, 2011

Filed under: Chicago Chica — Yessica @ 1:41 pm
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I believe that at times in our lives it can be very difficult to be yourself around people. We are quick to pass judgements, assumptions, and create a false sense of reality.  Sure, I’ll admit: I’m the first person to make assumptions about situations and people I know very little about. I’ve always been that way since I was kid. I think a lot of it has to do with growing up constantly observing my changing environment. I can quickly identify how people around me communicate with one another.

I don’t understand why we continue to live in a safe comfort zones when it comes to all relationships. I often wonder why and cannot determine a reasonable answer. Its hard to be honest with people and much harder to be honest with yourself. But why not just give it a try?

 

Heartless April 20, 2011

Filed under: Pittsburgh Chica — Sonia @ 5:20 pm
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I’m tired of being nice. Being nice gets you nowhere in this world. Sorry, kids. I didn’t want any of you to hear it from me, but, it just doesn’t.

Therefore, I’ve made the decision that I am no longer going to be nice. I am going to be ruthless and heartless.